Wednesday, February 16, 2011

TOP 20 KOREA MOMENTS



I can't actually believe my time in Korea is coming to an end. Bitter-sweet ending really! Feeling really happy and content and comfortable here and now it is time to pack up my little apartment and leave! :( I have met so many incredible people, learnt some valuable lessons, shared and relished in cultural differences and had some unforgettabel experiences!



New adventures and excitement awaits! Land of bon vin and bon frommage here I come- if my visa sorts itself out! EEEK!






But without any further procrastination from my studying, here are TOP 20 of my Korean moments (in no particular order)!


1. Snowball fight at Sindong Elementary school after the first big snowfall of the season! Let's just say my tea break between 10:40 and 11am has never been so entertaining~!



2. The exquisite and mind-blowing Lantern festival in Seoul to remember Buddha's birthday.





3. Rocking to Vampire Weekend, Belle and Sebastian, Muse and Massive attack at Jisan Rock Fest for the weekend!


4. Temple Stay at Geumseunsa with the monk called Stonehead and 216 bows later!


5. Vuvuzela lesson at Soyang Boys Middle School during the Soccer World Cup! Never has the class paid so much attention!



6. Visit to the Bulguksa temple with Sun in Fall




7. Beautiful Busan with a particular special fish market



8. Day outing to Everland Theme Park with my elementary school kids


9. Cablecar up to Soraksan with Chung





10. Who can forget EPIK orientation when we had our first Galbi meal and met all the other crazy teachers!



11. Christmas in Gyeongju with the family on the coldest day in over 30 years!






12. About 12 foreigner girls donned in red watching Korea play Uruguay in a tiny pub in Chuncheon!






13. Scooting around Chuncheon with my scooter, especially over the ee-gyo bridge!



14. AJ- Dani and Bryan's beautiful baby that was born!





15. Jimjilbang experience (sauna) with Jo! Staring to the extreme! yes-beleive it or not adjuma I have boobs just like you!


16. Dancing in Hongdae: either with Bash to a band playing Coldplay and running through the subway at 4am or with Kirst to foot stomping trance music til breakfast at KFC!



17. ICE_CREAM! Baskins and Robbins Ice -cream with Kirst, Jo or Ashley! Something I will never forget!


18. Snowboarding attempt in Gangchon! painful but fun!


19. My birthday with the couchsurfers and a crazy Naerebang session later! :) Unforgettable!



Heal the world -make it a better place!


20. Catching the bus in the morning and having a fat chat/konglish lesson with my grade 5 student Song!



Gamsamnihida Korea! :) Dae-han-min-guk!

:)

Monday, January 31, 2011

Good fences(,24-hour surveillance, soldiers and government propaganda) make good neigbours.

This weekend I visited the DMZ-the DeMilitarized Zone. To say that it is anything more than an utter pathetic demonstration of the lowest form of humanity would be a compliment. I was clearly not impressed with the entire trip. Despite being an exceptionally lucrative business for both the South Korean and American government (and possibly the North Korean government too), the "huge" divide amongst supposed blood brothers is exploited and entrenched beyond measure! The imaginary 38th parallel line demarcating the two areas reminded me of a poem from High School-something Mr Jelley once taught us-that to this day I have never witnessed as blatantly and intentionally as this. Robert Frost's "Mending Wall" is a far more eloquent account of the DMZ than I will ever be able to write!

Here are a few selected lines:

He only says, "Good fences make good neighbours."
Spring is the mischief in me, and I wonder
If I could put a notion in his head:
"Why do they make good neighbours? Isn't it
Where there are cows? But here there are no cows.
Before I built a wall I'd ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offence.
Something there is that doesn't love a wall,
That wants it down."

These last two lines- are interesting especially when considering the DMZ- as one would expect there to be hatred towards the DMZ- a resentment and an outcry. But with time passing, the whitepickets spanning every 200m along the "wall" serve as a symbol of complacency and no longer a desire for looming unitedness. There was an eerieness about the DMZ, with soldiers staring at their reflections(minus the slight apparel difference) in the Joint Security Area only a mere 10-20metres away ready to open fire if any slight provocation should allow for it. And then, to be observing "the war" as first hand as us tourists did-felt like we were in nothing less than a lion cage in a zoo with an American Soldier barking orders at us as to protect us from the ferocious beasts that look nothing more daunting than my grade 4 boys only a little more grown up and wearing aviators.


Am I cycnical about this? YES. Why I had to ask myself? Because the entire notion of war baffles me: it inflicts innocent people's lives, divides families, creates imaginary boundaries and at the end of the day makes money out of it-the cheek!

As I stared out into the Alpine-post-card-like mountains of North Korea, I couldn't help but think that I my 70 US$ would have been far more beneficial to a family in North Korea suffering in this unbearable cold.

Such is life!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Cambodia and Vietnam!



What springs to mind when you think of Cambodia-Maybe Ankor Wat or Angelina Jolie's kid comes from there? It's the poor cousin of Thailand? It's not really featured in any TOP 10 lists to see in lonely planet and I may now confidently say "superbly underrated!" Cambodia may even sneak in above Vietnam for me! It was truly remarkable! Although, I still love Vietnam, Cambodia has an untouched beauty about it, whereas the likes of Ho CHi Minh feels like touristville (on par with Bangok ) where every jolly taxi driver or cyclo driver is trying to milk you for all the possible Dong they can get! We (Kirst and the two JOs) did so very much indeed in 2 weeks that to transcribe my untidy, scribbled diaries onto the more modern convenience of a desktop would just take hours and hours and would be BORING! So instead-a "photos HIGHs" section will follow the itinerary with all things worthy of mentioning!


9 Jan: Arrive Siem Reap (ancient temple exploring, bicyclin, fish eating feet, massages)

10Jan: Siem Reap ( fish amok, beautiful apsara scultures, Tomb Raider temple, tuk-tuk rides)

11 Jan: Siem Reap and overnight bus to Sinokville (sleezy, old, fat, desparate man hang out)

12 Jan: Nomad Island (mango shakes, fresh grilled fish, crimson sunsets, hammocks reading "First they killed my Father", snorkelling, phosphorescence in the sea at night )

13 Jan: Nomad Island (aka paradise)

14 Jan: Nomad Island (aka more paradise)

15 Jan: Phnom Penh ( Killing fields, Security Prison 21, Palace, best con-artist book seller aged 10 that got us to buy 5 books)

16 Jan: Phomn Penh ( beautiful orchids, a chat with a monk, a fried frog!)

17 Jan: Chau Doc (cyclos, a motorbike ride, a tour of the floating villages and feeding fish)

18 Jan: Can Tho ( a bustling river-front with everythign on sale from Bonsai to new clothes all for Lunar New Year)

19 Jan: Can Tho ( Floating market cut short, a medicine women and a visit to the local public hospital- oh adn Sauteed snake!)

20 Jan: HO Chi Minh ( Getting screwed by a cyclo driver, Reunification palace, Ben Thahn Market)

21 Jan: HO Chi Minh ( the most delicious meal at teh same restaurant twice in one day, war remnanats museum with a great exhibition of war photographers, Ho Chi Minh City Museum)

22 Jan: Ho Chi Minh and fly back to Incheon Korea. ( A Vietnamese cooking course with a famous American chef and one long flight home)


HIGHS in pictures!


All the different types of Transport- ferry, boat, speed boat, bus, over-night bus that screeched like a beginner violinist for all 10 hours, a tuk-tuk, a cyclo ( human pushed wheelbarrow), a mini-bus, a motorbike, a bicycle, taxi-legal and illegal!






The unbelievable detail of the centuries old temples! My favourite being Banteay Srei! I could have spent another few days here! I loved the beautiful little side streets, the markets, tuk-tuks and the looming ancient era every now and then as temples seemed to shoot out from the beautiful rice paddies! I loved the apsaras-the beautiful breasted women and the majestic lions!








The flowers! Oh the orchids! Uncle John would have loved them! Somethign I have missed so much from home! Nothing like warmer climates for sunshine and flowers!



The paradise of Nomads island was incomparable to anything I have experienced before. Complete tranquility and isolation from the rest of the world: hammocks, books, snorkelling, fresh fish, a mice invasion and magnificent sunsets!








Of course beautiful people are never hard to find in South East Asia-especially little kids! My goodness! I just want one! This little kid-Fong ended up massaging my legs! The girls at the bottom sold us beautiful bamboo made dragonflies and birds! " only 1$ lady"! There Englsih was far better than my kids at school -sad how "struggle for survival" is a wonderful catalyst for learning!





Of course another moment worth mentioning is the horrific tragedies of war both in Vietnam and Cambodia that has left horrific evidence of its destruction. I questioned the ethics of having a memorial containing everyone's skulls at the killing fields and the horrific pre-execution photos of prisoners at S-21 in Phnom Penh. It just doesn't make sense to me! Any of it.




And of course, what would a great trip be without food-glorious food! Oh and markets-how can I possibly forget those! I have never tasted such delightful things. Kirst and I spoilt ourselves to a cooking Kirst on the last day with a trip to the local market and a course which happened to be with the famous American chef-John Ash. Very cool indeed!






Thank you Cambodia and Vietnam for a wonderful stay! Many happy memories, laughs and photos!

Love
JO-explorer!

xxx





Sunday, January 2, 2011

New Year, New resolutions!

Wow-I am pooped, finished, dood and kaput!!!

The family left on Friday night after a whirl-wind adventure of tantalising Korean flavour!

And the New Year has rolled around quicker than you can say "jeranimo" or is "geranemo"! Who knows-what the hell! A very chilled night was spent decidedly out of the cold and in a bar froteh count down on 2011!

I have been alone in my lovely little apartment most of the afternoon after getting back from Seoul this afternoon. It has been the first time in about 3 weeks I have actually managed to do nothing and soak up all that has been going on!

So I thought a little blog was in order... or rather a testimony of my year 2010 and my hopes and resolutions for this year-the year 2011-which I might add sounds really SCI_FI! haha.. not sure why!

So 2010, I coined the resolution: Love. Laugh. Live! (my love for alliterations will never die)
And boy what a year it has truly been....

In the LOVE department (ALL FORMS THAT IS) I realised that self-love, although a desirable state of being, relies on the insatiable quest for self-knowledge, sometimes harsh self-acceptance, and a good dose of self-boosting (aka confidence). Love for family is summed up in the idiom: blood is thicker than water-always. Love for people- all kinds of people is possible. I love George Moore's quote : "After all, there is but one race: HUMANITY". And then my love for friends-great friends-who are there through thick and thin-great party moments, life defining chats, moments of doubt and fear... I sure dont have a million friends, but those I do have I hold close to my heart. And then sharing your life with someone means having someone to witness your day, someone to challenge you, someone to truly care for you and mean it, someone to share your interests and not divide your differences, someone that brings out the best in you and loves you for your ditsyness, friendliness, love for ballet, horrible accent and your flaws and funny knees. I have been truly blessed this year for being loved so much, and being able to show that love conquers all in life no matter what circumstance.

I have managed to LAUGH-a million times over- mostly at myself! And this I have also learned- laughing at oneself is the greatest lesson one can learn. Life isn't all serious! My everyday events are comical from a taxi driver on New Years Eve not believing white people were from South Africa and being convinced that I should marry him to my students demanding to know if I were rich or not... or better yet a raging adjuma smacking my dad on the bum for not going to her restaurant but instead choosing their rivals who were more busy I might add.laughter is a wonderful medicine and to laugh freely and whole-heartedly is wonderful-truly wonderful!

In terms of living-LIFE- the zeal for breathing= life as we know-all the lemons, tequilla and salt- it is all about CHOICE!From the moment you wake up-we choose... Life is filled with them! make decisions and choices with conviction-who cares if they are wrong afterwards... at least you can say you made it with conviction and learnt a lesson for next time. :) I have been so incredibly fortunate to learn this past year that attitude is a choice too... Attitude to moan, attitude to be grumpy or conversely to suck it up and move on and make the most of it! Never again will I ever have 4 international holidays in one year- sure I have no savings left but my choice to travel and explore , experience and taste life in different parts of the world has certainly been fulfilled 10 fold!

AS for 2011~! and only 7 days til I leave for Cambodia and Vietnam with Kirst and Jo for another extremely great adventure in the sunshine-OH YEAH BABY!!!! And less than 50days left in Korea- I begin to plan for my next journey-that is to France!! OUI-c'est vrai! :) But in the chaos of conversation class planning and registering with Unisa and returning bedding to teachers and cleaning my flat and booking accommodation and trying to work out how to obtain my Schengen visa .. I have managed to come up with another alliteraton for 2011-a year which will of course be very different from 2010... that of H's.

Health
Hardwork
Honesty
Happiness


Bring on this year-YIPPEEE!!

Bisous
Jo teacher!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Jonsi - a spiritual experience!


Do yourself a favour and watch this: http://vimeo.com/17292667


It sure doesn't give it justice! But boy-o-boy! What an experience!

I have never been so moved by music as this Monday evening in Seoul listening to Jonsi- the Icelandic sensation.

I had become interested in the band Sigur Ros, when my very special friend Emma introduced me to them. There album cover intrigued me- a group of naked men running through a daisy field. And their music is exactly that! It is liberating, freeing, enchanting and youthful! I always want to dance whenever I hear this music. My favourite song of Sigur Ros is "Gobbledigook", and exactly as it sounds it makes one feel alive as the melodic madness yet harmony entrances and captures your very essence! My favourite thing at Uni was to play them on full blast in my little "Jean Claude" as I enjoyed a ride to Simon's Town! AH BLISS!

Anyway, so this is all a lead up to telling you about Jonsi-who is the lead singer of Sigur Ros. He has been on a world tour and for one night only he was in Seoul! And how convenient that Seoul is only 1hour and 20min away by bus from Chuncheon! I jumped at the opportunity when Chung told me they were coming! Although a little pricey for the tickets-the experience was beyond any monetary value!

We left hoe straight after school, to catch the 5pm bus and off here we were on a Monday night into the big city! There is something about Seoul as you first catch a glimpse of it that makes me so very excited indeed.. and this time was no exception! WHOOPPEE! We caught a taxi to the venue after some tea and coffee at Coffee bean! And then at 8pm all the magic began!

After his first note was sung- the audience simultaneously gulped in awe! We knew we were in for a remarkable experience. I have never heard an audience stand in absolute silence as then- nobody moved or dared say a word as the music filled our souls... I spent most of the concert with absolute goosebumps! The overtones created by his pure voice and absolute precision of pitch were crazy! The ensemble of instruments and the harmony within the chaos of sound was out of this world! The line-up was definitely very well planned, as with each song there was a build up to his hit- GO DO- which is the song I have linked! I phoned Em in the middle so she could hear a glimpse of it!

What I could not get over were the unbelievable visuals! Lighting, graphic design, computer graphics and who knows what was used to create scenes of moving tigers and owls on the hunt, falling rain, leaves falling including helicopter leaves (which made me think of the one at home that always clogs up the pool at 393 Frank Street) and my favourite- honeysuckers or sunbirds getting nectar from beautiful flowers. I think the climax of the night was when the fan club from Seoul had organised on a certain song to add their own flavour to the event and without warning about 500 paper jet planes were flown from different audience members onto stage! Clearly this is a special thing of his-but even the band were flabbergasted. It was sure a sight to be seen!

But what I think blew me away most was the humility and unselfishness of Jonsi- this remarkable talent. I no very little about him and he didn't feel he had to share that with anyone. It was all about the music-the spiritual, soulful experience of living and breathing and appreciating! WOWAWEEH!!


Never will a concert compare!

Here is the Youtube link to my favourite song-

boy lilikoi

Love, Laugh and Live!




Monday, November 29, 2010

Bows + Beads + Buddhism= 108

This weekend, Kirst, Jo, Ashley and myself headed off to Geumsansa temple in Gyeonggi-do province with Adventure Korea ( and 26 other curious foreigners) to experience first-hand the life of a monk for a night and two days.

We had to meet in Seoul at Hongkik University subway stop at 9am for a 4 hour journey into the heart of Korean country land-away from the hustle and bustle that the bug city exudes!

We arrived around 2pm and were given our garb for the weekend- Monk's clothing- a tan coloured jacket and pants. Fortunately, we were allowed to wear a few layers underneath otherwise we may well have just frozen! Off to our room for the weekend we were asked to change before receiving a briefing on the rules of the temple and given a crash course in meditation, bowing and the correct stance for walking.

Then, onto making of Lotus Lanterns. We regarded ourselves as experts, as we had been there done that at the Lantern fest in Seoul in May, when we had made lotus flowers. Nevertheless, second time round- it was just as enjoyable if not more, as this time the leaves were alredy folded and stuck and we all agreed that was the most tricky part the previous time. We were given a selection of colours-pink, red, yellow and green to decorate as we saw fit. The great designs and patterns that emerged were wonderful! :) 2 hours later we all hung up our lanterns and moved onto gonging of the bell-by which this stage it was almost dark. The bell is gonged to wake up the land, sea and sky creatures. Everyone did this with much gusto as one of the monk's counted methodically " han, deul, set, net, daseot, yoseot, ilgop (GONG)!

Off then to have dinner in silence. :) Yes, silence. This was especially difficult for the Americans (kidding) and we were told that you eat all you serve yourself. There is no wasting in a Buddhist temple. Kimchi, kimchi flavoured pineapple, beans, some sweet potatoe ( all veggie stuff)! :) It was suprisingly delicious! And then bakc in the freezing cold to witness a chanting session with the monks in the main temple.

The tranquility and serenity engulfed this temple-it was wonderful to be there with no other tourists maddly flashing their cameras. This is what a temple should always be like I decided.
Then, a question session with the monk, who's name directly transalted to STONE HEAD, we all thought this was funny and so did he! :) happiness and contentedness surrounded him like a bubble. He seemed very at peace. We were given free -reign at asking any questions we wished. And found out some interesting things: one needs to study for 15 years to be a monk, you shave your head so that you have no desire to be beautiful, that our monk had a cellphone and thingks Steven Jobs is the coolest guy ever. :) This was served with green tea and some pear and red bean treats.

Then, bed time baby at 9:30 for what was going to be a busy and exhausting next day. :)

UP AT 3AM, after sweating profusely from the jolly hot underfloor heating, we padded up-now 7 layers I counted. As Oros men we shuffled all the way to the main temple to do some chanting and 108 bows. We were explained the night before that 108 derives from the ears, eyes, nose, mouth, body and mind (all the sufferings in the world ) . So 6X6=36 in the past, present and future (x3)= 108! And let me just tell you-I never know how painful it was to do so many. My legs and bum are cramping today because of it. Then, a traditional breakfast ceremony followed. This took 2, 5 hours and was a meticulous process of bowl sorting and cleaning and water pouring and food serving and eating of all the morcels, so that there was nothing left (all done in silence). The funniest moment occured when one boy opposite me was given a hot pepper from the soup and the monk said he was required to eat it. He couldn't possibly as even one little nibble made his eyes water. The lovely tour guide Mia then quickly came aroudn with a tissue and while the monk was facing away, she wrapped it up and disposed of it. We were all in fits of giggles-silent ones! By this time it was only about 7am.

Then we did some community worked and swept all the leaves from around the courtyard adn then swept the main temple area too. I was delighting in the monk's optimism and enjoyment of this task-he was refreshing. Then, some Korean tradtional bang ( bread ) with red bean inside. (YUM!!!) My favourite! ANd then lastly my favourite the bead-making. We were instructed to make a necklace of 108 beads by bowing. After each bow we had to string a bead onto the string. This exercise took about 45minutes and we were allowed to position ourselves anywhere in any temple in Geumsansa. I found a little removed temple and positioned myself in the sunlight alongside a chanting monk. It was quite the scene-this very solemn Korean monk chanting and gonging his instrument, while this white girl bowed and strung beads on her string. This white girl thourougly enjoyed the experience and decided each bead would represent somehtign to me- I prayed for people, gave thanks, repented and sent up prayers of wishes to whoever was listening. I now have a necklace filled with beads of memories.

Exhausted we had lunch and finally set off at 1pm back into the hub of everyday life. When bakc on the subway, some elderly folk were having a fat discussion about our lanterns and decided Jo's was the best, mine second and then Ashley's. He was very concenred about something and was pointing and motioning to an elderly women about it. She was just giggling while he continued to mumble and grumble. Sometimes I really wish I understood the language better!

And today, I woke up to a world covered in natural icing sugar! Yes, we have had our first proper snowfall in Chuncheon and I am as happy as Larry! The intrigue and novelty of snow will never grow old for a South African child. Tonight, I will head back to Seoul for a concert of Jonsi with Chung! Emma introduced me to Sigur ros and he is the main guy! I am so very excited indeed! What a wonderufl start to the week: cramping legs and bum, snow-covered everything and a concert! And now, a robots and alien game with my boys for revision before their exams!

Adios
JO-teacher-monk wannabe-snow lover-Jonsi-groupie!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Phillipines baby: No problem!

The phrase in Phillipines was " No problem"! And so for my blog post for this trip I am taking the easy way out and just going to do a pictorial account! Forgive me for my laziness! :)